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Tuesday, July 19, 2011

What Does Your Doctor Really Mean When He Says "There's Nothing Wrong"?


What thoughts go through your mind when you hear this - "There's nothing wrong."

Most likely you hear that the crappy way you're feeling is all in your head - or so the doctor thinks.

Believe it or not, this is a phrase that's mean to reassure people. Fat chance of that happening. Once more this shows the major gap between the person uttering those sounds and those receiving them.

What the doctor is trying to tell you is that he cannot find anything serious either on examination or on the testing that he's done. And you really do not want something to show up on any of those. He is NOT saying that it's all in your head. There are many things that can be wrong with you but not have major abnormalities that can be easily found.

Part of the problem is that you probably won't listen to anything else the doctor says after that. Do not fall into that trap. What comes next may actually explain the whole thing. You know how fast doctors talk. They don't pause between sentences to see how you absorbed or reacted to that statement.

So, what do you do? First, let's discuss what NOT to do....Do not get upset. Do not shut down. Do not feel abused or ashamed. Do not feel like you've been wasting everyone's time. Do not be angry. Do not discount everything else the doctor's going to say. Do not get flustered. That's the most important of all.

Stay alert and open-minded. If you have to regroup, put your hand up to signal the doctor to slow down or even pause. Listen, listen, listen. See what the doctor has to say afterwards. If it doesn't seem that you're understanding what he's saying even though you've been trying, stop him and ask for clarification. Say "excuse me" or hold your hand up again. If he's not looking or listening, try standing up and see if that will give him a clue.

At that point you can simply say "I don't understand what you're saying." Or you can ask specifically "what do you mean there's nothing wrong? Are you saying that this is all in my head?" One reason we give up so much of our power is that we remain silent. You have to ask for clarification and refuse to be intimidated. You know that there's something bothering you. No, it may not be earth-shattering or something that will be a first recorded case - BUT, it's something making you feel bad enough to come to this humiliating appointment with a doctor who isn't doing a very good job explaining things to you. Don't allow that to happen. Don't give away your power.

Same goes if the doctor says "I can't find anything wrong". I know from my 30 years in medicine that just because I can't find something wrong does NOT mean that there isn't anything 'wrong' with the patient. Doctors do try to find out if there is anything obvious first. And sometimes they will stop looking if there's nothing found on the basic studies. But most often they will try to find something that will provide relief for you while your body heals - even without anyone ever knowing what it was. They will tell you that you need to come back if you're not getting any better. This is not just "blowing you off". It's because right then they are not concerned that there is something major wrong to warrant other studies. But, they are acknowledging that you don't feel well and want you to rest, take the symptomatic medicine you're given and return if you're not feeling better.

It's important that you do not give up your power by giving in. Do not leave the office if you're uncertain what's going on or what the plan of action is. I know this is difficult but you really can do it. You may have to speak up and say "Excuse me, I don't understand. Can you explain this to me so I can understand, doctor? Are you saying that there is nothing wrong with me or that you just cannot find something on your tests?" Do not feel as if you're going to make the doctor mad or he won't like you or something stupid like that. The doctor will NOT know that you don't understand unless you tell him. If you don't say anything, he will only assume that you're fine with everything he's said.




Dr. Wurzbacher is a retired Navy Emergency Medicine Physician who recognized early in her career that she was probably missing much of what her patients were trying to tell her. The Emergency Department is one place that being good at communication is essential - you have no records to work with and not much time. Teaching young doctors and ancillary staff the personal aspects of medicine has become a passion of hers. Her book, "Your Doctor Said What" is intended to help patients not only understand why many doctors seem like aliens but also how to empower themselves to deal with them.

Check her out at http://www.yourdoctorsaidwhat.com and http://www.yourdoctorsaidwhatblog.com.

For help with communicating with your doctor, contact the author at Terrie@askyourdoctorsaidwhat.com





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Saturday, July 16, 2011

But The Doctor Said There Was Nothing Wrong!


First, if you are in pain, SOMETHING IS WRONG. The challenge with most doctors is that they are to arrogant to say, " I cannot find the reason for your pain (or symptoms)!" This would be an honest answer, but would also point out the limitations of the doctors.

Did you know that at least 40 percent of the diagnosis are incorrect. What is a diagnosis? It is a "guess" at what a "person" "thinks" might be" wrong with you. Listen to each of these words and grasp the reality of what they mean. It is not the doctors fault, it is just the reality of medicine. The same symptoms can point to a dozen different condition, or more. Is it a cold or bronchitis, is it a chest pain from indigestion or a hear attack, is it a headache or a brain tumor? This are the differences that a complaint or symptoms might be concluded as being.

It has sadly been shown that there are still patients who take the word of the doctor as infallible, no matter how many other explanations. Elderly women have been told that their joint is "bone on bone" and therefore MUST HAVE surgery or a knee replacement. In reality there is still space and it is not bone on bone and the joint can be in many cases "rehabilitated" and not require a replacement which is dangerous, many times unsuccessful and PERMANENT! Once you have had the knee replaced you cannot go back to dealing with the arthritic condition which might have been helped with other procedures.

Isn't it amazing that a doctor can say there is nothing wrong and then pick up there pen and paper and prescribe a drug which will do harm to the stomach, kidneys and liver? If there is truly nothing wrong, why the symptoms and why not admit to the limitation of your profession and seek other directions that might have other answers like nutritional supplements that in the long term may improve the healing of the condition by "helping" the body and not doing more damage just covering the symptoms? Why not have a second opinion, not of someone in the same profession but from someone in a different field?

But that would be like going to a Ford dealer and when the customer was not totally sold on the product to suggest they go look at a Chevy. We are always thinking that doctors are gods, or at the least philanthropists who would always be looking out for your best interest. That is not the case and the only one who can look out for you is YOU!

YOU need to know that doctors are "limited" about their knowledge. They went to college for their 8-12 years but they learned about only their field, not the field of their competition.

It is always amazing when a patient will complain about going to a medical doctor and all he wanted to do was give them drugs! Yes? And you were expecting? Of course they were going to recommend drugs... what is their title? M... medical (drugs)...D... doctor, that is what they know and what they will recommend. A surgeon will recommend surgery, a nutritionist will recommend nutrition, and a chiropractor will talk about adjusting you. This is what they have their knowledge, in their field. And the patient seems to always be surprised.

Patients want to believe that the doctor will recommend other fields as if he/she knew everything about every profession and what might help the individual patient. That is not reality. The patient, you, have to educate yourself about your body, what it might need and then HIRE a doctor to "teach" you about what they do, how it "might" help you, and then you have to make the decision. You do not have to take the drugs, have the surgery or get your spine adjusted, IF you are not in agreement.

If the doctor says there is nothing wrong and you know you are in pain or something is going on where you are experiencing symptoms, then you and not the doctor are going to have to seek addition assistance and not expect the doctor to automatically tell you to go to the herbalist, or the therapist, or even a chiropractor. You are going to have to make that choice.

This keeps being said and will have to be said again and again. You are responsible for your health and you are responsible for a lot of the outcome. If you go to a medical doctor and take the medication and get symptoms of some side effect or the medications do not work, you have a responsibility to let the doctor know. Most doctors do not know the amount of failure in their treatment because the patient does not tell them. This is sad, for the patient and for the doctor. It is also sad for other people who will continue the treatment you have taken as if it really worked because the doctor assume that your silence means you are doing better and you have gotten well.

Do you realize that most patients do not tell their doctor about outside treatment? And example, many patients will go to their doctor with back pain and will be prescribed a muscle relaxant, and maybe an anti-inflammatory medication. They may even take it, or they may not even have the prescription filled because they were looking for something other than drugs from their medical doctor (this is the un-real concept that many patients have mentioned before), but even if they take the medication and it does not work or only gives temporary relief, they may go to an acupuncturist or better yet, a chiropractor.

There they will have greater success with the treatment and their condition is improved or resolved. The shame is that the medical doctor assumes you are taking the medication, that your are doing well because of the medication, and that HE has cured you!

This is again unfair to the doctor and his other patients. Most doctor do not know that their patient is seeing other services because they are not told. Some are not told because of their own attitude or egos. Patient would like to confide in their doctors, but some have told the doctor that they have been to another professional and the doctor gets upset or belittles the other profession placing the patient's judgment in question and to the embarrassment of the patient, they will say nothing the next time.

It is a wise doctor who seeks out the answers to the benefit of their patients and works for that purpose. It is a good doctor who works with other professionals and seeks the best for their patients, but, back to reality. You have so much care being offered by HMOs and they generally do not have alternative health care services or if they do, it is very restricted and/or limited.

Until the professions become more professional, it is going to have to be the patients who make the choices. It is going to have to be the patients who educate themselves. In truth, this is a very good thing. The more educated you become about what is available to you the better you will be to make choices for your best results. These choices may save you a lot of pain, a lot of many, and could even save... your life!




By the:

PUBLIC RESPONSIBILITY EDUCATION PROGRAM

Dr. Gerald Coy

CHER Foundation

Coy Chiropractic Institute

http://www.cherfoundation.org * http://www.cher4life.com



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Saturday, July 9, 2011

When Doctors Don't Know What's Wrong


The first patient I ever saw as a first year resident came in with a litany of complaints, not one of which I remember today except for one: he had headaches. The reason I remember he had headaches isn't because I spent so much time discussing them but rather the exact opposite: at the time I knew next to nothing about headaches and somehow managed to end the visit without ever addressing his at all, even though they were the primary reason he'd come to see me.

Then I rotated on a neurology service and actually learned quite a lot about headaches. Then when my patient came back to see me a few months later, I distinctly remember at that point not only being interested in his headaches but actually being excited to discuss them.

I often find myself thinking back to that experience when I'm confronted with a patient who has a complaint I can't figure out, and I thought it would be useful to describe the various reactions doctors have in general to patients when they can't figure out what's wrong, why they have them, and what you can do as a patient to improve your chances in such situations of getting good care.

THE SCIENTIFIC METHOD

Believing a wacky idea in and of itself isn't wacky. Believing a wacky idea without proof, however, most certainly is. Likewise, disbelieving sensible ideas without disproving them when they're disprovable is wacky as well. Unfortunately, patients are often guilty of the first thought error ("My diarrhea is caused by a brain tumor") and doctors of the second ("brain tumors don't cause diarrhea, so you can't have a brain tumor"), leading in both instances to contentious doctor-patient relationships, missed diagnoses, and unnecessary suffering. Doctors sometimes aren't willing to order tests that patients think are necessary because they think the patient's belief about what's wrong is wacky; they sometimes suggest a patient's symptoms are psychosomatic when every test they run is negative but the symptoms persist; and they sometimes offer explanations for symptoms the patient finds improbable but refuse to pursue the cause of the symptoms any further.

Sometimes these judgments are correct and sometimes they're not---but the experience of being on the receiving end of them is always frustrating for patients. However, given that your doctor has medical training and you don't, the best strategy to use in these situations may be to do your best to ensure you're being handed judgments based on sound scientific reasoning rather than unconscious bias.

EXPERT VS. NOVICE THINKING

But even the most rational scientist is teeming with unconscious biases. So an even better strategy might be to attempt to leverage your doctor's biases in your favor.

In order to do this, you first need to know how doctors are trained to think. Medical students typically employ what's called "novice" thinking when trying to figure out what's wrong with patients. They run through the entire list of everything known to cause the patient's first symptom, then a second list of everything known to cause the patient's second symptom, and so on. Then they look to see which diagnoses appear on all their lists and that new list becomes their list of "differential diagnoses." It's a cumbersome but powerful technique, its name notwithstanding. A seasoned attending physician, on the other hand, typically employs "expert" thinking, defined simply as thinking that relies on pattern recognition. I've seen carpal tunnel syndrome so many times I could diagnose it in my sleep---but only learned to recognize the pattern of finger tingling in the first, second, and third digits, pain, and weakness occurring most commonly at night by my initial use of "novice" thinking.

The main risk of relying on "expert" thinking is early closure---that is, of ceasing to consider what else might be causing a patient's symptoms because the pattern seems so abundantly clear. Luckily, in most cases, it is clear.

But sometimes it isn't. In those cases, your doctor may do one or more of the following things:

1. Revert to "novice" thinking. Which, in fact, is completely appropriate. We're taught in medical school that approximately 90% of all diagnoses are made from the history, so if we can't figure out what's wrong, we're supposed to go back to the patient's story and dig some more. This also involves reading, thinking, and possibly doing more tests, for which your doctor may or may not have the stamina.

2. Ask a specialist for help. Which requires your doctor to recognize he or she is out of his or her depth and needs help.

3. Cram your symptoms into a diagnosis he or she does recognize, even if the fit is imperfect. Though this may seem at first glance like a thought error, it often yields the correct answer. We have a saying in medicine: uncommon presentations of common diseases are more common than common presentations of uncommon diseases. In other words, presenting with a set of symptoms that are unusual or atypical for a particular disease doesn't rule out your having that disease, especially if that disease is common. Or as one of my medical school teachers put it: "A patient's body often fails to read the textbook."

4. Dismiss the cause of your symptoms as coming from stress, anxiety, or some other emotional disturbance. Sometimes your doctor is unable to identify a physical cause for your symptoms and turns reflexively to stress or anxiety as the explanation, given his or her awareness that the power of the mind to manufacture physical symptoms from psychological disturbances is not only well-documented in the medical literature but a common experience most of us have had (think of "butterflies" in your stomach when you're nervous). And sometimes your doctor will be right. A physician named John Sarno knows this well and has a cohort of patients who seem to have benefited greatly from his theory that some forms of back pain are created by unconscious anger. However, the diagnosis of stress and anxiety should never be made by exclusion (meaning every other reasonable possibility has been appropriately ruled out and stress and anxiety is all that's left); rather, there should be positive evidence pointing to stress and anxiety as the cause (eg, you should actually be feeling stressed and anxious about something). Unfortunately, doctors frequently reach for a psychosomatic explanation for a patient's symptoms when testing fails to reveal a physical explanation, thinking if they can't find a physical cause then no physical cause exists. But this reasoning is as sloppy as it is common. Just because science has produced more knowledge than any one person could ever master, we shouldn't allow ourselves to imagine we've exhausted the limits of all there is to know (a notion as preposterous as it is unconsciously attractive). Just because your doctor doesn't know the physical reason your wrist started hurting today doesn't mean the pain is psychosomatic. A whole host of physical ailments bother people every day for which modern medicine has no explanation: overuse injuries (you've been walking all your life and for some reason now your heel starts to hurt); extra heart beats; twitching eyelid muscles; headaches.

5. Ignore or dismiss your symptoms. This is different from the application of a "tincture of time" that doctors often employ to see if symptoms will improve on their own (as they often do). Rather, this a reaction to being confronted with a problem your doctor doesn't understand or know how to handle. That a doctor may ignore or dismiss your symptoms unconsciously (as I did with my first-ever patient) is no excuse for doing so.

A DOCTOR'S BIASES

Just which of the above approaches a doctor will take when confronted with symptoms he or she can't figure out is determined both by his or her biases and life-condition---and all doctors struggle with both. To obtain the best performance from your doctor, your objective is to get him or her into a high a life-condition and as free from the influences of his or her biases (good and bad) as possible.

Negative influences on a doctor's life-condition include all the things that negatively influence yours, as well as the following things that may happen to them on a daily basis:

1. They fall behind in clinic. Your doctor may be naturally slow or frequently have to spend extra time with patients who are especially ill or emotionally upset.

2. They have to deal with difficult or demanding patients. Hard not to enter into a defensive, paternalistic posture when too many of these types of patients show up on your schedule.

3. They feel like they don't have enough time to do a good job. With fewer and fewer resources, doctors are being asked (like everyone) to do more and more.

4. They have to deal with a morass of paperwork in a hopelessly inefficient health care system. The amount of time most doctors must spend justifying their decisions to third-party insurance carriers is growing at an alarming rate.

A sampling of unconscious biases that influence doctor behavior include:

1. Not wanting to diagnose bad illnesses in their patients. Leading sometimes to an incomplete list of differential diagnoses.

2. Not wanting to induce anxiety in their patients. Leading sometimes to insufficient explanations of their thought processes, which often paradoxically leads to more patient anxiety.

3. Over-relying on evidence-based medicine. Though the practice of evidence-based medicine should be the standard, many physicians forget there's a great difference between "no evidence existing in the medical literature to link symptom X with disease Y" and "no evidence existing to link symptom X with disease Y because it's not yet been studied."

4. Not liking their patient. Leading to impatience, not listening, and not taking enough time to think though the patient's complaints.

5. Liking their patient too much. Leading to biases #1 and #2.

6. Thinking a patient's symptoms are caused by one diagnosis instead of many. Also known as Ockham's razor, sometimes it's true and sometimes it isn't.

7. Wanting to be right more than wanting their patient to get better. Res ipse loquitur (the thing speaks for itself).

8. Believing their first thoughts about the diagnosis are more likely to be correct than any subsequent thoughts. If your doctor is too attached to a diagnosis simply because it's the one he or she thought of first, or has seen it more than other, less common diagnoses, he or she may avoid pursuing other possibilities.

9. Failing to consider that a test result may be in error. This doesn't happen commonly, but it certainly does happen.

10. Wanting to avoid feeling ineffectual. Some diagnoses are more amenable to therapy than others. No patient wants to have an untreatable illness and no doctor wants to diagnose it.

11. Having an aversion to being manipulated. Manipulation is especially common in patients suffering from chronic pain syndromes (who may at times appear drug-seeking rather than pain relief-seeking). No one likes to be manipulated, but a wise mentor of mine once said, "The question isn't whether or not your patients will try to manipulate you. The question is how will they try to manipulate you." Coming to terms with this truth is vital for any doctor to have successful relationships with their patients.

HOW TO GET YOUR DOCTOR ON YOUR SIDE

Unfortunately, your ability to raise your doctor's life-condition is as limited as your ability to raise anyone else's, and even more so when you don't feel well. Good humor, if you can muster it, may be your best option.

But in dealing with your doctor's biases, you have on your side a fact I firmly believe to be true: most doctors want to do a good job and help their patients as best they can. So what exactly can you do to maximize your doctor's ability to help you?

1. Position your symptoms and requests carefully. Don't demand medications or tests. Ask about them. Wonder about them. It's perfectly all right to bring up research you've done about your symptoms, but explicitly express your openness to the possibility that your ideas might be wrong. Not that you should aim for subservience by any means, but rather for a genuine partnership.

2. Remain reasonable even when you're irritated. Most doctors, even when stressed, will respond to reason and reasonableness in kind.

3. If your doctor suggests your symptoms might be due to stress, acknowledged they may be right. Even if you disagree. First of all, your doctor may be right, even if it doesn't feel that way to you. Secondly, if you dismiss the notion out of hand, you might make your doctor defensive and therefore more likely to cling to an idea that a moment before was only one possibility among many.

4. Ask questions that promote transparent, logical thinking. Many doctors don't explain their thought processes clearly. Write all your questions down before your visits and ask smart questions that actually help your doctor think through your symptoms and his or her approach to working them up ("What possibilities will this test rule in or out?" "What else is on your list of possible diagnoses?"). Of course, this presumes you're comfortable knowing the answers. I recommend you summon your courage to ask these questions, however, because they'll encourage sharper thinking from your doctor.

5. Be explicit about how you want your doctor to work with you. Show them you're interested in understanding the process of medical detective work. Position yourself as your doctor's student. Nothing helps improve someone's thought process like having to explain it to someone else.

6. Ask your doctor to explain the risks and benefits of any proposed test or treatment quantitatively. Get percentages for risks and compare them to the risks of activities you tolerate every day. For instance, your annual risk of dying from a motor vehicle accident is 0.016%. You'd be surprised how many worrisome side effects to drugs, for example, occur at an even lower frequency.

7. Get second opinions. And sometimes third opinions. And sometimes more. Do this carefully, recognizing that in doing so you risk ending up even more confused than you were with only one opinion. But don't assume because your doctor doesn't know what's going on that no one else does either. There's almost no way for you to be sure your doctor doesn't know what's wrong because he or she doesn't know or because no one knows. Sometimes you have to go through multiple doctors until you finally find the right one with the right experience to figure out your problem (if your insurance will let you, of course). Neither doctors nor patients like to acknowledge this, but serendipity sometimes plays a role in finding the right diagnosis. I once figured out why a patient had been nauseated for 30 years after they'd been seen by almost as many doctors. The patient said something that just happened to make me think of an obscure diagnosis I'd never seen but had read about. I looked it up, sent the patient for a test, and found the answer.

I have a small cadre of patients who suffer from symptoms more horrible than I can describe, some with known diagnoses and some without. In all cases, my ability to help them is tragically limited. Sometimes I want to ignore these patients. Sometimes I cringe when they call, not because I don't like them or because they complain to me too much or because I don't care about them but because I have so little real relief to offer them. I know how much my simply being present and being willing to listen has meant to them (they tell me this all the time) and I don't discount it. And I do my best to diagnose and treat what problems I can and sympathize with them when I can't. But it's hard. I must constantly be on guard not to fall under the influence of the thought errors and biases I've described here. So while I hope everyone who reads this post finds it helpful, the person to whom I actually wrote it was myself.




Please visit Dr. Lickerman's blog at http://happinessinthisworld.com to read other articles about achieving health and happiness. He can be reached at alickerman@gmail.com.



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